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Culture

Calling all lovers of art, book, & music

If you're anything like me, you have that expansive, never-ending kind of taste. You crave depth, richness, and charm in everything you experience. That's what culture is all about for me – the things that move us, inspire us and make life a little more interesting.

WokenHeart Book Club

Shonda Rhimes, the brilliant woman behind Grey's Anatomy, Scandal, How to Get Away with Murder, and so many shows that have shaped our cultural conversations, was terrified. Not of writing, nor of running a media empire. But of showing up as herself.

Public speaking? No. Social events? Absolutely not. Anything that required her to step out from behind her work and be seen? Hard pass.

So when her sister challenged her with a simple observation ("You never say yes to anything"), Shonda made a decision: for one year, she would say yes to everything that scared her.

I first heard about this book years ago, but I wasn't ready for it at the time. Now, as someone who's realizing how often I don't follow through for myself, how easily I say yes to everyone else but no to the things that would actually move me forward, this book hit differently. It's about what happens when you stop hiding and start showing up, when you choose courage over comfort. When you finally say yes to the things that scare you and discover who you become on the other side.

Why I'm Recommending It:

This book isn't about becoming fearless. It's about doing it scared.

Shonda doesn't sugarcoat the discomfort or pretend that transformation is easy. She talks about the panic, the doubt, the moments where saying yes felt impossible. But she also shows what's possible when you trust that growth lives on the other side of fear.

What I love most is how honest she is about the process. This isn't a "I said yes, and everything was perfect" story. It's a "I said yes, and it was messy and uncomfortable and changed everything" story. And that feels so much more real.

If you're someone who tends to play it safe, shrink yourself to make others comfortable, or wait for permission to take up space—this book will give you the permission you've been waiting for. Not to be fearless, but to be brave anyway.

Perfect For:

  • Anyone standing at the edge of something that scares them

  • Women are ready to stop apologizing for taking up space

  • People who are tired of playing small

  • Anyone who needs a reminder that doing it scared still counts

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